My regrets? 🤫

Hi lemon friend.

I want to share things that I regret the most.

It is "telling my story"

So here's why. People will often compare your life with theirs. If you are better than them they'll say "at least you didn't....."

If you are not better than them they'll say "You know, my life is... and I think u should..."

something along the line...

anyway, not everyone is like that but please, if someone is telling their story... please don't compare them with yours. It hurts... they just need you to listen not for you to prepare an answer.unless they ask for it, something like an advise... please give them an advise that doesn't hurt them or maybe cheer them up. Well unless what they did is bad, please try to advise them the best you can, not in a way where it makes them feel worse.

Some people talk about their hardship, just to let it out. But some people take it as a sign of not being "grateful" enough.

We didn't live their life. So we didn't know what they truly felt. What if that was their "test" given to them? and there you are hurting them more and that was actually a "test" given to you. who knows right? well please be kind.

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