5 Things I Learned from my Last Relationship

It’s been a little over a month since my last break up and I’m proud of myself for walking away when I did. Healing is a process , sometimes a painful one but it’s so worth it in the end.

1. You can’t be everything for someone and you’re not supposed to be. It’s okay to choose you first.

2. Healing from trauma and past experiences is key! If you don’t heal, you’ll bleed on people who didn’t cut you.

3. It’s okay to not be okay in the process. It’s just not okay to stay that way. You’re not obligated to show up for everyone and everything while you’re processing and healing. Take the time that you need.

4. You can do everything right but people will still choose themselves or someone else over you if they really want to and that’s not your fault. You’re still worthy of love.

5. Pay attention to the red flags ! 🚩🚩🚩I’m not saying people can’t change overtime but sometimes they don’t. Take them as they are and don’t fall for the potential of who they could be.

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