is he the one? ⋆𐙚˚⊹♡

hellos! 🍋

“ is he the one? “ is a question i always ask myself when i’m in a relationship. i’m sure everyone considers this too?

💌 how did i realise he is the one

♡ — personal growth 🌱

he pushes me to my limits ( in a gd way ) to make me a better version of myself. he supports all my decisions and gives me help and advice whenever i need. he doesn’t stop me from doing anything for his personal gain ( e.g stop me from gg overseas etc ). he always thinks for me and wants whats best for me.

♡ — his beliefs

“ i won’t care about what others say about you, i only trust what you tell me “ | “ i don’t have to ask my friends if i can bring you. you’re my gf, we come in a pair “ | “ i’m already sure i will marry you “ | “ i can see a future with you “ etc. 🫶🏻

♡ — sense of security

he makes me feel so safe and secure. when i all panicky & nervous, he calms me down & always manages to solve my problems. ( stupid story 🤓 had a nightmare & called him & went back to sleep peacefully. | stupid story 2 🙂‍↔️ was getting followed by a man into an alley in korea & i facetimed him… until my sis pulled me to walk opp direction bcos all i cld think of was him. as if he cld do anyt 6000km away )

♡ — little things 💐

you guys have seen a small portion of the things he does for me. even after a year, he still goes out of his way to get me stuff / make me happy. he always does things just to see me smile. he remembers what i like / dislike, what’s important to me, etc.

♡ — relationships

he’s a family man, i am as well! the way he treats his mom says alot. he loves my family like his own, always buy things for them, join my family gathering & my family adores him! he has rly good friendships and bonds with ppl.

♡ — me before him

always thinks about me before himself 😓 he considers me in every decision, no matter how small. he takes care of me & always puts my feelings first before considering his own.

♡ — arguments 😾

this is a rly impt point!!! every rs has arguments & the way we handle ours, also made me realise we will always work things out tgt & sustain in the long run

🚫 one neg point : we dh much in common ( hobbies, interest etc ) but, we both believe that we work! i involve myself in his social life, he watches the shows i wna watch, i try out activities he wna do etc. accomodating & supporting each other makes things work!

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