Life With No boyfriend ?

Feels liberating to me. I am also celibate! Not dating and abstaining from any forms of intimacy with another person. I’m newly 25, so here’s 25 things I no longer have to worry about or deal with anymore from a man (in a relationship)

1. No more sharing my body or give it, when they want it.

2. Not having to sacrifice, compromise or negotiate.

3. Don’t have to fit an expectation anymore.

4. No more sharing with someone.

5. Priority & consideration is only myself.

6. Less drama, no conflicts, consults or arguments.

7. No pressure to commit to someone.

8. Traded in my dependence for independence.

9. Having control instead of being controlled.

10. No one to keep tabs on me via calls, text, or location.

11. More time on my hands along with unlimited freedom.

12. Their milestones, holidays & birthdays is on them now.

13. Financial freedom to spend as I please when I want.

14. No more presenting as a societal couple in public.

15. More quiet, solitary and peaceful moments to myself.

16. Unlimited possibilities are all around me.

17. Set my own pace: No more interruptions/ distractions.

18. No need for approval, validation or permission.

19. Freedom to reinvent myself & start new.

20. No more feeling responsible to fix or maintain.

21. No need to accommodate preference for someone.

22. No pressure to keep up with a partner’s timeline.

23. My destiny & desires are my choice with no opinions.

24. No stress from partners on my mind, body or energy.

25. I’m on my own. No one’s responsibility is me.

Being single is so important to me. I’ve taken my time, life, body and mental health seriously to the point now that I refuse to compromise on that again for the wrong person. I also plan to make more list like this on no family, no friends and no sexx. Still brainstorming ideas so, hope you can relate to this one!

‼️ Also, I understand that I was in a bad relationship and I also understand that not all relationships are like this. If there’s any mean or bad comments, trust, I’ll delete them and block you. There’s been a few already or people taking everything I’ve said in this post out of context. It’s not that deep. I’m just a girl who’s happy she’s single now and not being manipulated & lied to anymore. It’s my life, so please leave me alone if you don’t wanna support me.

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