What I refuse to deal with while dating

Ok.. here’s me being vulnerable but as a 27 y/o dating has now gotten quite serious for me. As I approach my 30’s I find myself to be more marriage minded. So here are some things I simply will not put up with during the vetting stage. Let me know if you think these are too extreme. Also what your non negotiables are in the comments down below. I’m curious 🤭

1. Bad communication .

I hate bad communication on all fronts. I prefer my partner to get back to me within the hour, if we’re just starting to court I can do up to 24 hr grace period with phone calls and 3 hrs for texting but the texts have to be meaty and not bland. Don’t go 3hrs just to send me nonsense you will be cut from the list.

2. Flakes.

If you cancel you better have a damn good reason + a reschedule and let it be within the 24 hr grace period. If it is the day of you can whole heartedly forget about me.

3. False promises.

“I was gonna buy you flowers.” “ I was gonna take you shopping.” “ I was gonna get that for you.” “I was gonna do it.” Men who make false promises are the absolute worst and I refuse and rebuke them.

4. Liars.

I’m very intuitive like most women. If my intuition catches you in a lie you’re done buddy.

5. Non romantics.

Add some flavor to this courting sesh. I’m too old to be coaching men through romance. Take initiative and set up the date, plan the outing and book the trip.

6. I don’t know’s .

Men in my dating age 27-35 who don’t know what type of relationship they want are just an embarrassment.

Idc if you were Pan & wanted Polly, just know what you want! You’re too old to just go off of vibes.

7. Non- established.

Have your stuff together before you go on dates. Women are expensive, children are expensive, homes are expensive. Everything that makes up a future for your potential family is expensive. So get it together before hand.

8. Hygiene.

This goes for your house as well but I’m not putting up with dirty.

9. Mommas boy.

I’m just not … I also refuse to play mother. I’ll be damsel all the way in distress before I ever play mother again.

10. Masochist.

If you hate yourself and enjoy making women evil so that you can feel alive stay 6 miles away from me at all times. I don’t want to be a b**** just to be treated right. Get some therapy or a dominatrix.

I can go on but I think 10 is fair for now. Add your Deal breakers below. I wanna see something lol.

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⭐Rate: 10/10 will never do again.