Psychological signs of lying!!

common psychological signs people are lying!!

People tend to confess (without confessing) to their own actions while pointing a finger to ensure that if the truth comes out they already are “covered” and will make the other person look like a liar 🤥. Sometimes this works but you will see the signs of this.

If they tell you in a random moment that a friend they are falling out with talks shit about you, this should throw you off and you should ask these questions. Why didn’t you tell me when it happened? Chances are they will say they “didn’t want you not to like” the other person or they “didn’t know how to tell you”….. this makes no since but people who feel on the spot genuinely can’t think of anything better. Also ask “why didn’t you defend me” the bs excuses that come from this one always kills me. But chances are they tell you they “just awkwardly sat there and said nothing” THIS IS NEVER TRUE. Or say they “told them they didn’t agree but understood that’s how they felt” Nobody in the world would talk shit about someone’s bestfriend in front of them knowingly on their own. If you don’t like a person and hang out with their bestfriend you aren’t gonna go talking shit until they bring it up. Then the conversation engages.

For example :

your bestfriend was talking shit about you so the girls she’s with agree and go along with this dynamic. Then when she feels she’s loosing a grip of those girls, will come to you and tell you everything that was said but claim she didn’t participate.

This could also be to lower your self esteem and make herself feel good. But I ensure you they are lying. If your friend was good enough to tell you what people say about you they would be good enough to shut it down in the moment.

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