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I think the main reason why I've been single all this long is because I set a high standard for a man… and I think that’s not a bad thing. I do, often feeling conflicted about having high standards in dating and it’s actually a common experience.
But despite that, I'm still keeping it realistic. No, having a high standard in dating doesn't always mean seeking perfection but more like seeking what’s worth to you.
-I hold high standards for the man in my life because I hold extremely high standards for myself, and I believe that man is a reflection of the women she is with and vice versa-
Whenever I use this argument among friends, they’ll always counter with my standards being too high. Been told that I am superficial or that I watch too much kdrama and am looking for a handsome man that doesn’t exist. The bottom line is that I actually don’t have a specific set of standards to begin with.. All that i’m looking for is FEELING
I want someone who makes me feel excited over small things, someone who challenges me, makes me think, makes me question everything and just generally makes me a better person, while hoping that i do the same for him.
But despite it all.. Always lower down the expectation. Because I know that’s not reality. Life isn’t magic, isn’t a fairytale.
So, I'll keep it this way. Keeping my standards high. And that doesn’t make me a bad person. That makes me brave and courageous. Because I would rather be single for a long time than get mistreated by people who don’t give a crap about me. Rather love myself more than to be half loved.
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