STAY AWAY from the 3 month method

Here are a few reasons on why I decided to stop letting it take 3 months for a guy to decide if they want to date me🤭⚡️

1. It’s way too confusing and kinda depressing to only talk to one person with the hopes of being together or serious with them. If I like you I will let you know and most likely will stop talking to other dudes because it’s that easy for me to lose interest with people who are just filling a “void” and not stimulating conversation.

2. It’s so DRAINING!!! With this generation the “wyd” or “I’m different” approach sends a message that this is only a temporary partnership and not a connection that’s gonna benefit either of us!!!

3. It can lead to heartbreak🥲 maybe not as serious as a heart break but it leaves scars sometimes when you are trying to keep things fresh and get to know this person to only find out this isn’t what they are ready for OR they simply don’t want you and never saw you in that way to begin with😭🫶🏽

BUT DON’T trip girls going on dates and experiencing the dating lifestyle is 100% okay! But allowing a boy to come into your life and not provide or service you is a waste of energy and time! How do you guys feel about this topic? I love different perspectives and I am so open to hearing ALL of them✌️😙

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