Solusi Kepada Kawan Yang Suka Cakap Belakang?

Hello, loves! Ain ada satu soalan nak tanya, what if one day korang ada masalah dengan kawan korang, then u happen to see a tweet or a repost a post about you (as a sign of menyindir)? what are you going to do?

Are you going to do nothing and ignore or you are going to confront the person about it?

If it is me, it depends on how big the issue is. Kalau sampai melibatkan nama baik, of course I will confront the person to clear the misunderstanding. And ada pernah sekali tu terjadi, and I happen to see a tweet yang not directly mentioning tapi I know it is about me, so to confirm it (risau jugala kan kalau kita syok sendiri), I pun confront the person and tanya whether that tweet was about me or not (if I’m not mistaken, I ada tanya or kalau tak tanya pun, I ended up confront the person), I said, kalau ada apa-apa yang tak puas hati nak cakap, bagitau I directly, and not at my back or dekat socmed. Then the person was just silent.

I guess that’s how I work things around bila mana I ada situasi macam ni. It does not feel nice bila mana u are in that position, emosi lebih kepada marah or rasa yang tak senang bila diperlakukan macam tu. And as usual, for everything that happen, lebih kan kepada reflek diri sendiri yang mana, in this case, kita pun kalau tak puas hati dengan sesiapa, ada benda yang kita tak suka, kita perlu directly cakap dengan orang tu instead of going around and telling other people except the person involve.

What do you guys think? Are you going to do the same or just be a simple person and let go?

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