monthly relationship check-ins you should do!❤️

Monthly relationship check-ins are a great way to keep your relationship strong and healthy. They give you and your partner a set time to talk about your feelings, sort out any issues, and celebrate the good stuff.

So here's a perfect, simple guide on how to do them and why they're important...

1. Pick a consistent date: the first of each month at 7pm as example. Make it a habit and put it on each of your calendars so that you know that time is booked each month.

2. Get rid of distractions: turn off phones and TV. Even over dinner isn't the best idea. Sit down together and be fully present.

3. Common things to talk about: Communication. How connected you feel.

Intimacy and affection. Shared goals and plans. Household chores. Money matters.

Any unresolved issues or conflicts.

4. Share the good & bad: Start with the positives about what's working well.

Then, discuss any challenges or areas for improvement constructively.

5. Express appreciation: Take a moment to express gratitude for each other and your relationship. Highlight specific actions or qualities you appreciate.

These monthly check-ins are totally customizable and up to you what to discuss and how short or long they should be. They boost your communication, prevent resentment, strengthens your emotional connection, encourages growth, increases relations, relationship, satisfaction, and encourages mutual support. It's basically like self care to your relationship. Almost like a self run couples therapy session. So I implore you to give it a shot and see how healthy your relationship becomes!

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