5 ways to tap into your femininity

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1. have a girls night out 💃🏽

having a girls night will always bring the girly-girl out of you. there’s just something about being around your girls that makes you feel anything is possible. we all are going through life and embracing our womanhood, it’s good to have other women who we can let loose with and leave all our worries behind.

2. wear something that makes you confident 💁🏽‍♀️

your outfit is key. wearing something that makes you look in the mirror and say “yea, I’m really her” is a necessity. it doesn’t have to be tight. it doesn’t have to be short. it’s whatever makes YOU feel beautiful and comfortable. whatever that outfit is that makes you take a double take because you just know you’re that girl! do that! that feeling alone will have you putting an extra sway in your hips when you walk.

3. throw on your favorite pair of heels 👠

speaking of comfort…a good pair of heels. honey a good pair of heels will change your life. I grew up a tomboy, and legit just got into heels a few years ago. I never took the time to learn to walk in them. and when I would buy heels, I bought the cheap $20-$30 that would have my feet bleeding by the end of the night. then I bought my first pair of Jessica Simpson’s. a life changer! I stand by sis and her pumps. it was like I was able to walk in them overnight. that’s when I learned that the price of the shoe matters! I can run a marathon in a pair of JS. but you give me a $5 heel and I won’t make it 10ft. invest in yourself. and your feet! find a brand that fits your taste and style and run with it! and if you’ve found a cheaper shoe that’s comfortable, rock that! either way, a pair of heels will change your look, and attitude!

4. apply make-up 💄

now me, myself, I’m a light make-up kinda girly. I used to wear a full beat but I’ll be honest, I never mastered the make-up thing like I really wanted to. eyebrows were so hard for me. and eyeshadow, I felt like Pennywise the clown every time I would apply it. then I realized, I was beautiful without a full beat. sometimes all you need is a little mascara and a good lip.

now honey, if you’re one of the women who can thrown on a full face, I STAN! do that! I’m a firm believer that wearing make-up, no matter how much, will make you feel a different type of beauty. you can’t tell me nothing when I throw mascara on!

5. pamper yourself before stepping out 🛁

I believe your prep is everything. run a bubble bath. light some candles. and just relax before heading out with your girls. drink a glass of wine and chill. use your favorite body oil or lotion and rub yourself down. I’m also a firm believer in wearing a nice bra and panty set to make you feel even more sexy and confident. do whatever you do that you deem as pampering. all this in prep for your girls night will set the tone for your confidence.

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