The WORST Part About Being Single Is…

The thing about being single is that you’ll feel great about it but on the next day it’ll feel worse at some point. you relish time alone, spend being invisible and independent but it can also be the very reason you cry yourself to sleep at night..

aside of those good things about being single, here’s the worst part of it :

•no one to share the load

One of the worst things about being single is there is no one to share the load. there is no one to pick up the slack when you’re not at your best. you have to do it all. you’re just responsible for everything. all the time. and the part i hated the most was when i had something to celebrate but no one to celebrate it with.

•Can’t really express myself.

Oftentimes, I feel like I'm not 100% me. I love helping people so much and showing love to people, but you can only go so far with friends. Sometimes I want to rant about my days, about some random people on the road, about anything that ruined my day more specifically and having a boyfriend would be great at times like that.

•The ‘Why Are You Single’ questions

Honestly, until today, I'm lost on answering this type of question. cause there’s no exact answer to it.

‘Why are you single?’ just imagine what’s the best answer to that! and I usually respond with ‘i don’t know’ with an awkward smile :(

•The empty phone notification.

I don't know if it’s just me but everytime i’m waking up with no notifications, it really hits me hard. it just really shows that i’m literally nobody in anybody’s life.. tsk tsk

but honestly, most of the time, i’m just tired

…tired of men telling me i’m too intimidating

…tired of instinctively reaching for someone when i'm lonely

…tired of everyone’s life moving forward around me

…tired of advice no one understands about being single

well that’s just how it usually is. The emotions are always trading off and coming back around again. don’t worry about me! These are all legitimate thoughts chronic single’s have! >< these lists usually run through my mind when i’m alone. By lunchtime tomorrow I'll be fine! my cycle just has to take its course. that doesnt mean i don't need a little extra love tough! That's just how single people are. we’d say we’re ok but a bit of peace and affection would be helpful too ❤️

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