Expectation VS Reality 💞

Expectation

1. Me kena banyak bertolak ansur dengan husband lepas kawin.

2. Kena standby if anything unexpected happen. (suka fikir the worst thing)

3. Must more tolerancy perihal anak, means kena accept bila husband tegur anak me if shes at fault.

4. Jangan / Never be a clingy spouse takut dia rimas.

5. Me kena tahu boundaries tahap mana boleh minta tolong husband.

***semua ni sebab me rasa cause husband sudi terima me yang status single mom***

Reality

1. Actually husband yang banyak bertolak ansur dengan me, sebab most of the time sepanjang lepas kawin ni, me yang banyak lost control on things yang me takleh handle.

2. Still kena standby if anything unexpected happen which is direzekikan anak lagi, me kena financial stabil lah. (so yeah in the way of positive though me rasa so far)

3. So far, perihal anak memang we both akan slow talk dan husband pun apa apa hal akan refer kat me dulu. So, its a fineeeeeee 🥰

4. Konon nak jadi isteri alpha type rupanya me isteri type C, whenever me rasa low, he as my power supply . Recharge 🪫🔋 to the max !!

5. Sebenarnya me skrg dah terlalu mengada, konon nak ada boundaries. Tapi skrg semua benda pun husband settle kan. Nak mandi pakai heater pun, dalam kereta dah gitau awal2 ye kat husband nanti setkan heater tuk mandi. Mengada tahap nak kena lempang sbnrnya dah me ni 😂😂

Kesimpulannya , tak kisahlah kita berstatus apa pun sebelum kahwin tapi kalau partner kita dah accept kita , kita janganlah rasa rendah diri . Tapi, kena lah juga ada masanya kita sedar diri 😄😄😄

By the way, kami skrg apply #SelawatTafrijiyah as our daily recite. Nampak terkumat kamit tu , selawat tulah kami dok ulang2. ♥️♥️